friend scared bout sex shes 15 hes 17?

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Its normal to be a little bit nervous on your first time. But if shes sure that she is ready, then its just the usual nerves. Just tell her to try and keep it out of her mind, all those nervous thoughts will go away as soon as they get started.

She'll look back and wonder why she was ever scared =) Best of luck to her!
 
my friend is 'inlove' problem is,hes 17 nearly18!
they both feel ready for sex,but shes scared!she doesnt want to feel presurised into it.. but she is ready,
she is a virgin, he has had sex number of times..has no diseas's either
shes scared she will do it wrong?
please any help/i cant help her..
 
i lost mine at 15, its perfectly okay.
and it was the same age difference as above.
well maybe if she feels presured she should wait,
either that or she can do it when she feels ready in a unpresasured situation!.
 
I lost my virginity at 15 to a 20 yr old. Although I didn't regret it at the time, I wish I didn't. Now, 4yrs later, if I could go back I never would have done it, I guess I just wasn't ready.
 
first of all
ignore all that christian crap above. no-one cares about sex before marrige anymore, and FYI JESUS IS A SCAM.
now with that off my chest.
Shes not ready. if shes scared, shes uncomfortable, she wants to be ready.
she needs to wait til shes not scared, til shes comfortable. first time can be nervracking, but shouldnt be scary. if they're that in love, he wont mind waiting til shes ready.

if youre really worried about her mental welfare, try contacting a social worker, school counsellor, or the police. you can do all of that anonomously.

The (informed) Ninja.
 
Their not married, both are not ready. A person who has Aids could lie that he is clean, so just by him saying he is clean makes him clean?
 
Tell her, that she should wait until the heat of the moment. Sex sucks when it is planned, so she should wait until she just can't resist him anymore.

Other then that, sex is pretty instinctive, and I'm sure that he can guide her.

Just tell her, to go on the pill just to be on the safe side.
 
I don't think she's scared about "doing it wrong" or whatever. Sex is a pretty big thing, and for one, she's not legal!! If her parents found out, her boyfriend could go to gaol for statutory rape, if her parents want him to.

Unless he's had the tests, you never know just what everyone has.

And the biggest one of all - she probably doesn't want to be a teenage mum!

Also, if she's so "ready", why is she worried about pressure to do it. There shouldn't be any pressure as such if she's so "ready." If she's worried about him pressuring her for sex, I don't think she's ready at all and she should wait until she feels she actually is ready.
 
I don't think she's scared about "doing it wrong" or whatever. Sex is a pretty big thing, and for one, she's not legal!! If her parents found out, her boyfriend could go to gaol for statutory rape, if her parents want him to.

Unless he's had the tests, you never know just what everyone has.

And the biggest one of all - she probably doesn't want to be a teenage mum!

Also, if she's so "ready", why is she worried about pressure to do it. There shouldn't be any pressure as such if she's so "ready." If she's worried about him pressuring her for sex, I don't think she's ready at all and she should wait until she feels she actually is ready.
 
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