sweet girl
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I have a friend and we've been friends for 16 yrs,both have grown kids.He's 55 and I'm 41. We decided that he could move over here,because I have a 2 bedroom,2bath condo in a real nice area and he was going through so hard times due to the economy,plus where he lived wasn't the best area.He moved in the month of May. In maybe a month or less I started seeing stains on the floor in his room and then 2 months later I started seeing roaches in his room. food stains on his laptop and on the closet door. I confronted him and we got into an argument,but I put my foot down and told him he needed to clean. I helped him clean it and of course he had an attitude. He doesn't take showers everyday and he comes home from work open the refrig without washing his hands and we get into an argument when I ask him to wash his hands. He takes the trash out,but he leaves the kitchen messy after he uses it and he tells me I talk to him like a child because I ask him to clean up after his self. his room smells and I want clean his carpet because he is so careless. He's my friend and I love him,but I really would rather he leaves, because I don't like the arguing and having to clean up behind him and he being so ungrateful.