Me and my husband were constantly arguing with each other during early years of our marriage. My husband is short tempered while I am not. Now after 10 years, I have realised that theres no way I can change him or myself. Moreover, this has very bad effect on my son. So I have stopped fighting or too much arguing. In marriage or relationship, one of the partners has to keep quite for the sake of it. If you want to carry on a relationship, you have to compromise. But the most import point is that you care for each other.