Helloooo nurse
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"Guys and girls can't be friends" is the theory in the movie. I find that as I'm getting older, it is difficult to genuinely be friends w. someone of the opposite. You can get along w. them great (yes) but put in the same intimacy you do w. female friendships, you can't. I had a guy in his 70's explain this to me today and said this theory is "true", especially if you're an attractive girl and very very especially true if you're an attractive AND nice girl... there's no way bc a guy will use anything to get to you - a friendship, help with something, a friend in a co-worker, etc... even if you're taken, a guy will use any kind of relationship to get close to you. A guy will not want to be "friends" w. a pretty girl unless it's gonna get him somewhere. They also take a pretty girl's kindness as interest (and most girls don't see it that way) and further complicates things...
So, pretty girls, do you find it difficult to have genuine friendships w. guys?
So, pretty girls, do you find it difficult to have genuine friendships w. guys?