Whether the arguments are bigoted or not...I am not going to respond. I don't want to "give" equality (positive laws) - everyone has it in my mind, but I would be for providing consequences (negative law) where abuse can be shown.
I would like to re-voice my statement (with a nod in agreement to joebrummer's comments that such will most likely not be going away...) that we should not be extending the law to include additional 'minorities' or 'protected groups'...otherwise we will soon HAVE to include Christians, whites, and males directly in the law(s) as the percentages of those three groups in the US are dropping steadily and reliably, in fact whites ARE the minoriy in some states already...so, do we then HAVE to write the law to include them specifically (as minorities) as well?
Then where will we be - back to square one, but now everyone has a 'right' to sue for whatever happens to irritate them that day.
And will the homosexual groups be 'bigger' than the 'right-wing', and support adding christians, whites, and males, when it's their "turn" to join the list of statisical minorities? While the number is small, there are AP-wire reports of each of those groups coming under a growing load of prejudicial/bigoted/hate "crimes" by those groups already 'protected' by these type of laws (not to mention that there some areas of various cities where "you don't go if you are white"), so "I'm a vicitm too" will soon be a rallying cry of all groups.
Again - not because of any particular "lifestyle" (as I agree with joebrummer, there are not that many differences**), but because I do not believe anyone should be compelled to support another's life choices in any way - fiscal or otherwise, I cannot support the addition of ANY group to the dole (does anyone want to start a P.A.C. to begin removing these laws from the books? :} ). So - due to facts and issues OUTSIDE the sexual preference issue - I cannot support "gay" marriage (or any protected group) in this LEGAL venue.
**There ARE 'otherwise' heterosexual individuals that engage in S&M, B&D, blood sports, bestiality,swinging,swapping,scat,etc...so how are they any different "according to law", other than that 'negative' law (Do this any you will be punished) provides for consequences in some cases - which is an entirely different discussion.
PS- having gone back an read the other forums/threaRAB on homosexual issues (thanks for the pointer joebrummer) - holy cr@p there are a few!! - I am inclined to believe that many people miss the point on various discussions, and 'evidence' must be carefully wieghed for bias on both sides. As joebrummer has stated: "Gays are a hidden population. It is immpossible to have statistics on gay health because it is impossible to find a good sample of gay people. "
So, as to 'proof' one way or another on "lifestyles","healthiness", and the like, I am more inclined to believe that it is an irrelevant point with regard to society/law, but a rather volitile one when personal belief is in question. As people will always have prejudices - even in Huxley's world you couldn't avoid it - it is not whether people accept a different way of life, but whether they actively hinder it in a way that violates that persons Rights (not 'rights') - and this goes BOTH ways.
If laws and policies were written with true equality in mind rather than 'compelled equality at law' for protected groups, there would be no need for these discussions (or even research), and we as a society would not be perpetuating the 'class' distinctions.
Does that make sense? I think a book explaining the concept for some, probably belongs under a different forum though.