Please be honest.
I've been fingered (2 or 3 fingers) and during the initial insertion, I experience a tearing pain. The pain ceases quickly and once the fingers are in deeper, it feels better. I'm generally pretty tight.
Do you think that [the fingering] will prepare me for some of the pain of actual sex?
Also, how can I relax and what can I do to minimize pain? Besides the obvious loads of foreplay and lube.
I've been fingered (2 or 3 fingers) and during the initial insertion, I experience a tearing pain. The pain ceases quickly and once the fingers are in deeper, it feels better. I'm generally pretty tight.
Do you think that [the fingering] will prepare me for some of the pain of actual sex?
Also, how can I relax and what can I do to minimize pain? Besides the obvious loads of foreplay and lube.