first time sex, cant get hard?

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so, it was my first time with anyone when i was ready to have sex with my girlfriend. We got all the way to the point where i got it in, but after i did one stroke, i went soft! i admit i was a bit sleepy and nervous as hell at the time. could this be the reason for my unfortunate incident?
 
Ya, when you get nervous your heart rate increase which can make it harder for blood to stay. The ending result is you go limp. Next time you'll probelly have better luck, just keep trying.
 
maybe. maybe you just werent that into that girl. it could be a lot of things.
 
It happens to the best of us. It's normal. Stay calm and keep trying with your girlfriend, that's the whole point of being with each other. With repetition the intimacy will only get better from there. Hope this helps. Peace
 
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