Nicole Schulze
New member
This is our first month ttc our first...my periods are usually regular but I just had my first one 16 days ago after my last one (nov 29-dec 7)...i have been using opk's since cd 12 and charting bbt since then as well...still no +opk but slight cramping on left side since last night...cm is watery-ish but still slightly white in color...cervix is high and slightly hard and I cant tell if its open...have I missed ovulation even though i havent had a +opk? or is it just a longer cycle? any advice on any of this would be greatly appreciated! ty! also my period lasted roughly 10 days which is only a day or 2 longer than normal so i chalked it up to not having one for 2 1/2 months...also as we are using a friend as a sperm donor since we are a married lesbian couple, timing is extremely crucial