I need advice.
My hubby is in the military and when we found out he was getting stationed across the country he asked me to marry him. I was scared to leave my job because unfortunately I have bills that will follow and he assured me he will take care of me and my bills. we then went to the justice of the peace and got married.
a couple weeks after moving we found out i was pregnant. And he was happy about it although it has been rough ever since! He promised b4 we left that he wanted me to be in charge of bills because he was bad at it. and he would rather work 2 jobs so school can be my main focus so as we discussed is what i did. fortunately i was able to get un-employment so he is paying none of my bills yet house bills are not clearing not being paid. we have a baby on the way and our financial security means nothing. he is frankly selfish and very secretive all of a sudden. I am thinking of moving back home and trying to find work again. where we live now even a good paying job would not cover my bills.
you would think he would be there for me emotionally because of the pregnancy but honestly i feel like a single mother about 90% of the time. I am constantly depressed. i just dont know what to do anymore
WOW i was asking for support. and i got nothing but a smack in the face. You think i dont realize what i got myself into! cant blame any1 but myself! At the end of the day i am a strong independent REAL woman and would do what ever i would have to to take care of my child. I would never give up what was mine. i do plan to leave when my 4.0 semester has ended and go back to working geeeezzzz
OH and for the record i know he wouldnt get a second job he said it to express sincerity
My hubby is in the military and when we found out he was getting stationed across the country he asked me to marry him. I was scared to leave my job because unfortunately I have bills that will follow and he assured me he will take care of me and my bills. we then went to the justice of the peace and got married.
a couple weeks after moving we found out i was pregnant. And he was happy about it although it has been rough ever since! He promised b4 we left that he wanted me to be in charge of bills because he was bad at it. and he would rather work 2 jobs so school can be my main focus so as we discussed is what i did. fortunately i was able to get un-employment so he is paying none of my bills yet house bills are not clearing not being paid. we have a baby on the way and our financial security means nothing. he is frankly selfish and very secretive all of a sudden. I am thinking of moving back home and trying to find work again. where we live now even a good paying job would not cover my bills.
you would think he would be there for me emotionally because of the pregnancy but honestly i feel like a single mother about 90% of the time. I am constantly depressed. i just dont know what to do anymore
WOW i was asking for support. and i got nothing but a smack in the face. You think i dont realize what i got myself into! cant blame any1 but myself! At the end of the day i am a strong independent REAL woman and would do what ever i would have to to take care of my child. I would never give up what was mine. i do plan to leave when my 4.0 semester has ended and go back to working geeeezzzz
OH and for the record i know he wouldnt get a second job he said it to express sincerity