Financial and In-laws problem?

[neha]

I am 20 years old and my husband is19 years old. This is our love marriage. After so much problems, struggle and so many issues our parents agreed for our marriage. As my husband is not so elder he is pursuing his studies, he is doing multimedia course from Arena Academy but I am working and earning around Rs.9,000. Now both of our parents are not so happy with our marriage but simply compromising. now the major problem is financial as my husband is not working. Initially before marriage we decided that we both (me and my husband) will live separate from his parents but now at this stage its not possible. so unwanted we have to live with his parents and follow their restriction. Initially i thought that this problem is only for 5 to 6 months but now i came to know that my husband's course is getting delayed by more than one and half year. moreover he is also insisting his parents for a side by side training off 6 months to be perfect in graphic and web designing. And for this his parents want some contribution from my side for his fees. Although my husband is not in this favor and ready to drop the training idea. But i think it is necessary for him. In this way there are so many issues and quarrels relating to money which used to be happened at home.In this case i don't know what to do. Should i force my husband to forget training and concentrate on his course only or to forget course, training everything to looking for a job. or should i understand him and give him the money for training and should encourage him for studies only. I also don't know how to react with my in-laws. They are so greedy. They want me to give my salary to them. But at the same time they are feeding me also. I cant share these things with my parents also so pls tell me what should i do.