My fiance's friend Tyler is always in our relationship in one way or another.
He instigates to get a rise out of me, gets me angry/upset, and then its funny, or its "your a bitch!"
With Tyler up my fiance's ass all the time I cant win. Seperate from my fiance, hes understanding and he listens to my side of the story, but its the complete opposite when my fiance's around.
In arguments, he always puts in his two cents, of course Im always wrong..he makes gay jokes about him and my fiance which really disgusts me since hes obsessed with him to begin with.
Furthermore, he claims hes very jealous of my relationship, but has told my fiance many of times just to break up with me already. Hes talked to me about being lonely, next thing you know, hes purposely excluding me from conversations with my fiance and making comments on my behalf, so that once again we argue.
I really feel like Tyler is starting to get into my fiance's head, if not that hes really starting to annoy me. I feel that in some ways Tyler is a source to the arguments we have. I could always keep quiet, but together the two of them would walk all over me. I also have no doubt that Tyler plays sides and Im not the only one whose picked up on this. I've said something to Tyler once before and my fiance gets mad at me. Yet, my fiance admitted last week hes aware that Tyler does this, but he says nothing! The only real problem it seems this relationship has as far as I can see is Tyler. What should I do? Should I not hang out when Tyler is around or what? He'd listen to my fiance, but my fiance wont tell him. When is he going to see whats wrong with this!? And do I have a right to be getting upset about this? Also, what are Tyler's intentions, Im starting to feel they cannot be good.
He instigates to get a rise out of me, gets me angry/upset, and then its funny, or its "your a bitch!"
With Tyler up my fiance's ass all the time I cant win. Seperate from my fiance, hes understanding and he listens to my side of the story, but its the complete opposite when my fiance's around.
In arguments, he always puts in his two cents, of course Im always wrong..he makes gay jokes about him and my fiance which really disgusts me since hes obsessed with him to begin with.
Furthermore, he claims hes very jealous of my relationship, but has told my fiance many of times just to break up with me already. Hes talked to me about being lonely, next thing you know, hes purposely excluding me from conversations with my fiance and making comments on my behalf, so that once again we argue.
I really feel like Tyler is starting to get into my fiance's head, if not that hes really starting to annoy me. I feel that in some ways Tyler is a source to the arguments we have. I could always keep quiet, but together the two of them would walk all over me. I also have no doubt that Tyler plays sides and Im not the only one whose picked up on this. I've said something to Tyler once before and my fiance gets mad at me. Yet, my fiance admitted last week hes aware that Tyler does this, but he says nothing! The only real problem it seems this relationship has as far as I can see is Tyler. What should I do? Should I not hang out when Tyler is around or what? He'd listen to my fiance, but my fiance wont tell him. When is he going to see whats wrong with this!? And do I have a right to be getting upset about this? Also, what are Tyler's intentions, Im starting to feel they cannot be good.