Ffs...

[PaTH oF RagE]

Why is it that whenever someone wants to meet up with me, I make an excuse not to? I was supposed to be meeting up with this guy i really like today but i'm blowing him off, for no other reason than the fact I'm abit nervous. ARGH!!!! :sword: :sword: :sword: :sword:

 

[~Amelia~]

Are these people online people?

 

[Pokemon Trainer]

no, lol. these are mainly people from work.

 

[Jahman]

ohhhh ok i was going to say, no offense to all of the lovely people on wtf, its a creepy thought meeting online people. However, I'm going to guess that you are shy. My advice may seem stupid, but it's the way i because the outgoing person i am. Breathe in and just do it. If you don't do it, you will regret not doing it later. Yes, it's scary, just take a breath, embrace the butterflies, and run with it. Good luck

 

[COLONEL CORN]

meet in public places til you're comfortable with 'em.

 

[BADBOY!!!]

there is nothing to fear except fear itself

just go with it. good luck conquering that.

 

[Lilbosnian]

I say go for dutch courage! A shot of vodka before any stressful event works wonders

 

[winter_white_wolf_pup]

A quick drink seems to help me chill a tad.. etc.
You just need to breathe, and step back and see it won't hurt you, and really it just causes more problems because you didn't meet them.

BTW: This should be in Life sucks.
Not, burps and bloopers, as much as you love this part of the forum.

 

[jackC]

Lol, I never know where to put my posts!! *foooolish*

 

[Big B!!~]

Disregard the people who told you to drink, Kat. From earlier posts you've written, I'd say that isn't your best bet. Go it sober to this and future gatherings, always repeating this Stuart Smalley mantra: "I'm good enough. I'm smart enough. And, gosh darn it, people like me."

 

[CrudestSaint]

Actually, he's right, as I didn't notice the other posts you've written. :thumbsup:

 

[IceCream899]

I wouldn't say that, well, if you've been talking with them for a while, I mean, it shouldn't feel that awkward.

 

[Kaytee <3]

Moved...

 

[alexa?! :D]

another thing that you can do to break the nervousness is just to go and mingle with groups of people. it seems to work me. rather than drinking.

 

[805]

Yeah theres no pressure. Just remember that if you mess up with this guy and make an ass of yourself not only will he never want to meet you again but it will also be very awkward at work. This will probably result in getting you fired and you will live alone the rest of your life. No pressure though..