PinkyChicky
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I've been with my boyfriend for a year and a half.. I love him a lot. We spend almost everyday together and mostly things are good.. but we have our downfalls too..
BUT I am just so insecure, like hes going to leave me for someone else..why am I like this?..well I'll tell you..
When we first met, he had this friend (a girl), he said they have been friends for like 2 years, he always wanted to be with her seriously but she didn't want him as a boyfriend even though they use to hang out all the time.. I told him in the beginning, if he wanted to be with me, he has to drop her, because I knew he had feelings for her cuz he told me on like our second date.. so he did, he hasn't talked to her since.. but here's the thing. before she was underage, and shes about to be legal..why is that a problem? well because he is a deejay, he deejays at bars and she knows about it, im just so scared of her showing up 1 night and try to be all over him just to get me mad, and i dont know how i would handle it? we haven't spoke before, but when she txted him one night monthsss ago i told her off and she hasnt tried talking to him since and he never talks to her...
but this could totally ruin everything.. im so insecure about this i know its crazy but i just feel like if she does that, and maybe she wants to be with him suddenly now.. he'll leave me..
what do you think?
if you want to know ages.. I am 23.. hes 26..
and if she does show up one night and im there.. i just dont know what im gonna do.. she is the drama-filled type!!..
BUT I am just so insecure, like hes going to leave me for someone else..why am I like this?..well I'll tell you..
When we first met, he had this friend (a girl), he said they have been friends for like 2 years, he always wanted to be with her seriously but she didn't want him as a boyfriend even though they use to hang out all the time.. I told him in the beginning, if he wanted to be with me, he has to drop her, because I knew he had feelings for her cuz he told me on like our second date.. so he did, he hasn't talked to her since.. but here's the thing. before she was underage, and shes about to be legal..why is that a problem? well because he is a deejay, he deejays at bars and she knows about it, im just so scared of her showing up 1 night and try to be all over him just to get me mad, and i dont know how i would handle it? we haven't spoke before, but when she txted him one night monthsss ago i told her off and she hasnt tried talking to him since and he never talks to her...
but this could totally ruin everything.. im so insecure about this i know its crazy but i just feel like if she does that, and maybe she wants to be with him suddenly now.. he'll leave me..
what do you think?
if you want to know ages.. I am 23.. hes 26..
and if she does show up one night and im there.. i just dont know what im gonna do.. she is the drama-filled type!!..