Family keep arguing with me should I change my demeanor?

[Vitaler1]

I'm thinking either they like arguing and see me as a target for my age or they don't like men. My sisters are all female and they keep having a go at me and when I react EVERYONE treats me like I was a bad guy because I got a little too angry but they always say these things and then go off and chat about me. When I was young and not intimidating they never really got angry with me unless I was being a nuisance