I'm currently 19 yrs old and I have a 13yr old little brother who is a thief a 15 yr old little brother who is autistic and we live with my mother, a single parent, with terrible health my mothers health is so bad she can barely get out of bed heres my issue
we are suppose to have 24/7 coverage of nurses for my autistic brother but they tend to call off which my mother throws it all on me she is to sick to move and she says my 13 yr old brother is to young to need to help she babies the heck out of him which is ridicious
a few days ago ive notices bruises on my autistic brother and when i go to my mother about them she advoids it and claims the nurse that I strongly believe is doing it isn't.
As I said I'm 19 I got thrown out of college because I missed so many days of school taking care of him my girlfriend moved in 2 months ago and we recently found out we have a baby on the way.
I get so stressed taking care of my brothers and mom I tend to let my anger get the best of me and take it out on my autistic brother which is not fair I can be ruff but I'm NOT giving him those bruises and my mother is not doing anything about it. She aspects my girlfriend and I to stay at her house to babysit her kids with our child for the rest of our lives which is not what we want to do.
I can't control my 13 yr old brother and my autistic brother is getting abused he isn't even safe in his own home so I was thinking about calling child service I bought his bruises to my mother several times who just shrugs them off I'm 19 not 9 he even recently had a cigg burn on him which was my breaking point
I know the boys will get taken away and hopefully get the help they need then maybe I can finally give my life and start my family without all the extra stress but they are my brother so what would you do if I was me?
Deal with all the bull until I'm dead or call child services and let them go some place where they can get proper help.
I feel like either choice is a lose lose situation but I honestly can't deal with this for much longer I'm going to snap.
we are suppose to have 24/7 coverage of nurses for my autistic brother but they tend to call off which my mother throws it all on me she is to sick to move and she says my 13 yr old brother is to young to need to help she babies the heck out of him which is ridicious
a few days ago ive notices bruises on my autistic brother and when i go to my mother about them she advoids it and claims the nurse that I strongly believe is doing it isn't.
As I said I'm 19 I got thrown out of college because I missed so many days of school taking care of him my girlfriend moved in 2 months ago and we recently found out we have a baby on the way.
I get so stressed taking care of my brothers and mom I tend to let my anger get the best of me and take it out on my autistic brother which is not fair I can be ruff but I'm NOT giving him those bruises and my mother is not doing anything about it. She aspects my girlfriend and I to stay at her house to babysit her kids with our child for the rest of our lives which is not what we want to do.
I can't control my 13 yr old brother and my autistic brother is getting abused he isn't even safe in his own home so I was thinking about calling child service I bought his bruises to my mother several times who just shrugs them off I'm 19 not 9 he even recently had a cigg burn on him which was my breaking point
I know the boys will get taken away and hopefully get the help they need then maybe I can finally give my life and start my family without all the extra stress but they are my brother so what would you do if I was me?
Deal with all the bull until I'm dead or call child services and let them go some place where they can get proper help.
I feel like either choice is a lose lose situation but I honestly can't deal with this for much longer I'm going to snap.