ex girlfriend just wants sex?

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my ex girlfriend of 6 months asked me to be her "cutty buddy" today. we never had sex while we were together cuz she said it hurt too much, so im surprised she would even ask me something like that (we are both virgins). deep down i still want a relationship with her even though she doesnt think its gonna work out (who knows why). im probly gonna tell her no cuz im not really like that and id rather have a relationship. but what would u do in my situation??
im not in love with her at all or attached but i like her alot...and we both could easily get other people thats why im confused about why she would ask me. and the only reason im concidering it is because so many people are telling me to do it and ill regret it if i dont
oh and if i get a std ima beat her like chris brown did rihanna lol (jk...or am i??)
 
Don't... if all she wants is sex, she can easily find someone else...

but if she insists it be you and you go for it, be smart, use a rubber... she could by trying to get you caught up...
 
Okay. if you are a virgin and are still in love with this girl and she has moved on emotionally and does not want a relationship, then it is a HORRIBLE idea for you to have sex with her. You will only be more attached and end up quite miserable. In all honesty, it is a bad idea. You are better off finding a different f*ck buddy. If she isn't into you emotionally, then you should both just move on. If you were not a virgin and were not still in love with her, I would totally say go for it, but this particular circumstance is just a recipe for disaster and heartbreak. Be careful.
 
I think you have your mind set straight, honestly I would rail her good but unlike me you're actually thinking about it & when the time comes & she meets someone else you're going to be the one hurting, not her. Because you want a relationship with her, she doesn't, there's a chance that she may develop feelings for you if you two continue to stay "cutty buddies" but usually someone ends up getting hurt & I think that person is going to be you if she sticks to her guns as far as saying it'll never work out. Eventually she'll meet someone! Where is that going to leave you, hurt even more then before I suppose because as time goes on the more time you spend with her the stronger your feelings are going to be to let her go if & when she finds someone else. Wouldn't you rather know that that feeling is there that the two of you care about one another, especially for her since you want to be in a relationship with her? To me I'd feel like I was uising her when I'd rather have her heart for the rest of my life then just getting in her pants if it was someone I really loved.
 
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