Archaic Arcanist
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Sorry for reposting, but I would appreciate some form of feedback...
Three weeks ago, our two year relationship ended (I ended it, due to complexity; however, it was either her or myself- she basically told me that.). She had stated she no longer loved me for who I was, merely because it was convenient. We are both in senior high school- she's in two of my classes, and I see her on a daily basis. We loved each other extremely deeply; I mean, we were extremely intimate... Deeper than I thought possible.
My friend is constantly flirting and hanging with her; I've informed him of how I feel, and he acknowledges it, but continues to do so. Regardless, I digress.
I've texted and talked to her frequently: she wanted to remain friends, or at least still talk. I reluctantly accepted (despite still loving her so much), however she suddenly wanted me to "get out of her life forever" and leave her alone. Somehow, she knows that I'm jealous of my friend talking to her constantly, and uses it against me (or so it seems) during classes or whatnot. Anyway, recently in one of my subjects, she's argued with me twice: (yelling, swearing, etc.) to the astonishment of everyone else. I've also found out she's jealous of me talking to one of her friends. I'm just wondering- does she have any residual feelings left? I mean, I still love her so much, and would forfeit everything to have her back, however, I don't know if this is common, or there is still something? She ignores my messages about how she feels, or whatnot; so I'm under the impression she doesn't have any "love" feelings for me anymore, as I guess she would've grasped the opportunities, or maybe a part of her still "likes" me due to the time we were together? Please impart your advice, or insights. I honestly have no idea as to why she's doing this, or how I should interpret it?
Three weeks ago, our two year relationship ended (I ended it, due to complexity; however, it was either her or myself- she basically told me that.). She had stated she no longer loved me for who I was, merely because it was convenient. We are both in senior high school- she's in two of my classes, and I see her on a daily basis. We loved each other extremely deeply; I mean, we were extremely intimate... Deeper than I thought possible.
My friend is constantly flirting and hanging with her; I've informed him of how I feel, and he acknowledges it, but continues to do so. Regardless, I digress.
I've texted and talked to her frequently: she wanted to remain friends, or at least still talk. I reluctantly accepted (despite still loving her so much), however she suddenly wanted me to "get out of her life forever" and leave her alone. Somehow, she knows that I'm jealous of my friend talking to her constantly, and uses it against me (or so it seems) during classes or whatnot. Anyway, recently in one of my subjects, she's argued with me twice: (yelling, swearing, etc.) to the astonishment of everyone else. I've also found out she's jealous of me talking to one of her friends. I'm just wondering- does she have any residual feelings left? I mean, I still love her so much, and would forfeit everything to have her back, however, I don't know if this is common, or there is still something? She ignores my messages about how she feels, or whatnot; so I'm under the impression she doesn't have any "love" feelings for me anymore, as I guess she would've grasped the opportunities, or maybe a part of her still "likes" me due to the time we were together? Please impart your advice, or insights. I honestly have no idea as to why she's doing this, or how I should interpret it?