Ex gf of 5 1/2 years talked to me on birthday and day after is she interested again?

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Ineedherback

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It woulda been just nice to say something little on my birthday but she called me yesterday and let me talk for a little and i got emotional and said to much and asked her to see me and than she said it wasn't appropriate. Then day after my birthday she texted me again in the morning asking how my birthday was. We had not talked in week and a half and when we did she told me to move on. Why is she still texting me day after my birthday? Is she interested again? When we were together she would ask about getting engaged all the time. Then things went sour cuz I was lazy and not acting like a man and she broke up with me?
 
For now you should take it slow dont freak her out by asking her to meet her and get back together, dont take this the wrong way but if it was you who messed up its all up to her whether you get back together or not. Give it some time and give her some space. You could try apologizing but wait a while you just broke up and you dont want this to turn into a huge mess. She obviously cares about you asking how your birthday went so it doesnt seem like shes going anywhere shes probably waiting for you to get your act back together. In the end if she moves on to someone new, it sucks but thats how it goes and you will find someone new just as long as you dont cling to the past. I wish you the best of luck!!
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She's not interested again, she was just being friendly. Don't get hung up on her because you're only going to get hurt.

Next time she contacts you, say "listen I can't do the while 'friend' thing with you because I don't want old feelings to rekindle. So please don't contact me unless you want to start something with me again."

Plain and simple :)

Good luck.
 
It is unwise to get back together with an ex. Most of the time, when you get back together with an ex, you have forgotten about the problems that arose whilst together and those problems usually come back but even bigger and heavier and make you two resent each other. This is why, when you go back with an ex, you usually end up single again soon enough...

You both may be interested, but that is normal because of the time spent together and the way you two grew together. I had an ex of only 2 months, but she was a part of my life for so much longer and I always think about her and miss her, but know I cannot get back because things will never work out. Some problems never leave, and those are usually the ones that persist and destroy and damage a relationship!

I hope this information was helpful! Good luck and be careful!
 
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