Ex came back tome and I took him back but...?

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Sarah Chin

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spent a really really lovely evening with him last night, and he seemed so happy to be back with me, the reason we originally split was to do with us spending way too much time together and it eventually pushed us away from each other, we were split for little over a month and in that time he slept with another girl and was seeing another, this really hurt me but I know I can get over it and I have, I'm not really bothered about it. But this morning I've been feeling really low, I've been worrying about him deciding he doesnt want me all over again and all these other worries, what do I do, should I get out, or should I try and carry on past these worries, I told him about them last night and he was lovely and there for me, but I'm finding it hard to believe what he says, I still can't believe he is truly genuine about coming back to me....
 
Step back and take a deep breath...now, ask yourself a question. He slept with another girl a MONTH into a breakup? Do you have other interests and hobbies besides him? Are you comfortable by yourself? When you look into a mirror, do you see someone worth a good relationship? If the answer is no on the last three questions, don't get into a relationship with him...or anyone else for a bit. Take the time to get to know and love yourself. If it's meant to be, then it will happen with him, or a man who sees your worth. Your current paramour needs some "grow up" time, and this the perfect opportunity for you to see the pros and cons of this situation. Take care and God bless.
 
What? WHY DID YOU STILL GET HIM BACK? Aren't you thinking? He slept with another girl? What do you still want from him? What if he still has other girls? Do not always mind your heart, use your MIND also. Sorry, but think please.
 
What? WHY DID YOU STILL GET HIM BACK? Aren't you thinking? He slept with another girl? What do you still want from him? What if he still has other girls? Do not always mind your heart, use your MIND also. Sorry, but think please.
 
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