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Every time we fight lately he instigates sex with me. I don't mind that, in fact its great to blow off steam. What I DO mind is that afterwards he turns on the tv or something and pretends like the fight never happened. I'm so stunned he does this I usually am at a loss for words. Today though we were arguing and it was our first big argument in prolly six months. He said some pretty hurtful things then instigated sex. Well we did and afterwards I said, "I'm still upset over what you said. This doesn't fix it it just calms things down." And he goes, "I know I know. I'm sorry though ok? now lets watch tv."
Um...I tried to bring it up again. He said basically the same thing. I didn't want to rehash everything but what do I do? He thinks I'm like a tv he can mute with sex. It doesn't work like that. And everytime he upsets me if I apologize later for my actions he wont apologize he'll say, "thats ok honey you're just super hormonal. you overreacted but I forgive you."
OMG! What do I do? He makes me VERY angry. Urgh.
Um...I tried to bring it up again. He said basically the same thing. I didn't want to rehash everything but what do I do? He thinks I'm like a tv he can mute with sex. It doesn't work like that. And everytime he upsets me if I apologize later for my actions he wont apologize he'll say, "thats ok honey you're just super hormonal. you overreacted but I forgive you."
OMG! What do I do? He makes me VERY angry. Urgh.