Okay some i'm old enough to have sex but i mean i've really never done it before. Now i am in love with this dude and we've been dating for a while and now he ask me to marry him, so the night before our wedding he goes "we should do it" and i go "what" he had meant sex. Now i wasn't ready to "do it" so i made an excuse and said not until our wedding. Now he's going to want to "do it" now that we're husband and wife. any advice ... i am not sure what to do and how to have sex.