...opposite sexes- why? Earier asked question was actually from (us) her first than me. she than sent me the results. Actually are relationship is over now trying to find the answers - we have had problems with both of us going out with the opposite sexed people I actually told her about it- Later she did the same thing but only she not only went out with the opposite sexed person but stayed the night at his house without me knowing . He(that guy she went out with) later told me they had wild sex and so on... she than said she would stay away from him and called him several times more and meet with him at her parent house. so as to in this case do you think either of us should have opposite sexed friends? I dont trust her and she says she does not trust me I think only to make herself feel better. everytime I go to her house her cell gets shut off and weird cig. butt around what should i OR (we) do?