Well, I can relate to our thread starter's frustration. I owned my 996 for about a year and a half. In that year and a half, I spent about $5-6k in parts, repairs, and maintenance. I treated the bike properly and maintained it as such. But I have to tell you, it wasn't a really happy experience every time I brought my bike in for service-service which seemed like it was about every other month with some bothersome issue. However, I did really like my 996 when it was running properly. I didn't like, however, waiting a month for parts because the Paesanos were on their summer break.
I would have loved to make a Duc of any color my next purchase, but to be honest, those factors of price and reliability were strong components of my decision. It's why I looked at the CBR1000RR and the Buell a little more intensely. The 1125R had 146 crank HP, a fully adjustable Showa suspension, a killer braking system, and a slipper clutch. Don't you have to pay for one of those on your Duc? Sorry, but at that price, THAT'S BULLSHIT! Plus, I read about how DNA has been treating some of you after the purchase and it wasn't anywhere near pleasant.
Now, with all that being said (and this may sound hypocritical), I still like the Ducati. I'd still own one, REALLY! I just don't think, quite honestly, it could ever be my daily ride. A weekend canyon runner or track day companion, yes. Something to put major miles on, in and around LA? Not on your life.