Don't want to tell therapist about same sex relationship?

[Yelena A]

am seeing a therapist for personal issues, basically trying to balance school/work and other commitments while not losing my mind. We talk occasionally about past relationships and the one I'm most guarded about and don't want to talk about comes up a lot, which was a relationship I had with another woman. I don't consider myself gay and when I talk about this relationship, I use "he" instead of "she" because it was a really painful relationship, and I don't want her judging me for who I loved. Is this really bad? She is a great therapist but I do not feel comfortable enough with her to tell her about this.

Should I see someone who specifically deals with gay/lesbian issues or what?

 

[Beletje_vos AM + VT]

Why assume your therapist is a homophobe? Be more open and speak honestly. If you're judged get the therapist fired for being unprofessional.