oh come on, do you really expect men to know exactly what their fiance wants on their wedding day? They're not gonna sit down and look at a scrap book of wedding plans, paying attention to details. Wedding things look all the same to men lol, they dont care or know if a dress is ivory or not, has a fish tail or not etc.
Maybe im generalizing too much but certainly all the grooms who go on dont tell the bride are like this