IF you loved him you wouldn't be so selfish, you would be proud that your boyfriend was doing something to protect the rights of your fellow citizens and you would be proud to wait for such a selfless man. Instead you are whining "how am I going to cope when he's away". It isn't about YOU, grow up and get over yourself. He is an idea though...why not take a spelling course so you will know the divverence between we and me as well as know and no and you can learn to spell MEANT (not ment) as well as AFGHANISTAN (an afgan is something your grandmother probably crochets)