Wind Rider
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I'm trying to decide which of these women would be best to go out with. Reason why my decision isn't urgent is because I'm getting over a previous relationship with a girl who abandoned me twice, as a friend and a girlfriend, and I don't want to date anyone for awhile now, New Years at the earliest.
Women 1: 6 years older than me, kind of gothic (dark clothes and short dyed hair), really good and cutting sense of humor which I can appreciate, not traditionally beautiful but definitely attracted to her (she's somewhat large), and I'm pretty sure she is attracted to me too, don't think it would be too much trouble getting her to date me. She's smart, but not in math or science like I am, somewhat of a reader. Likes to help people, her major is psych.
Women 2: 2 years older than me. Nerdy, but not in an antisocial way, and heavily into reading and writing (which is good because I'm a big reader myself). Cute face and hair, but she seems overly skinny and kind of small. Easy to talk with her for a long time, very pleasant person. Seems to have some kind of deep dark secret she wouldn't share with me (I told her some stuff about myself before I asked). Not so sure if she likes me. We are definitely friends and we can talk a lot, she seems a little put off by the fact that I am younger than her (I think). Pretty sure she would outright like me if we spent more time together, but we rarely see each other, mostly keep in contact via FB. When we have shifts together at work we flirt with each other some.
And ya how smart a girl is does matter to me, the smarter the better.
Which do you think I should choose based on this? not a permanent choice, just who do you think I should lean towards at this moment?
Women 1: 6 years older than me, kind of gothic (dark clothes and short dyed hair), really good and cutting sense of humor which I can appreciate, not traditionally beautiful but definitely attracted to her (she's somewhat large), and I'm pretty sure she is attracted to me too, don't think it would be too much trouble getting her to date me. She's smart, but not in math or science like I am, somewhat of a reader. Likes to help people, her major is psych.
Women 2: 2 years older than me. Nerdy, but not in an antisocial way, and heavily into reading and writing (which is good because I'm a big reader myself). Cute face and hair, but she seems overly skinny and kind of small. Easy to talk with her for a long time, very pleasant person. Seems to have some kind of deep dark secret she wouldn't share with me (I told her some stuff about myself before I asked). Not so sure if she likes me. We are definitely friends and we can talk a lot, she seems a little put off by the fact that I am younger than her (I think). Pretty sure she would outright like me if we spent more time together, but we rarely see each other, mostly keep in contact via FB. When we have shifts together at work we flirt with each other some.
And ya how smart a girl is does matter to me, the smarter the better.
Which do you think I should choose based on this? not a permanent choice, just who do you think I should lean towards at this moment?