Don't Love Husband...but He's So Nice and Great Dad. I am a stay at home mom too.?

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Maggie

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He's nice (his family told me they NEVER heard him yell in his life....after I told them his brother sounds like him when he yells.oops), and he's also a great father. But he's sooo pessimistic sometimes, and I wish he was just happy to be around. He also isn't great in bed. He also doesn't make good money...yet, since he's completing his PA degree anyway. It's just taking too long. I wish he was smart enough to finish his degree faster (like taking 15 hrs. a semester). WHAT IF my children turn out dumb?!
ONLY good part is he gives me good looking kids...BUT he's short too!
I only got with him (like forced myself to stay with him) because I was desperate to be with someone after boyfriendless forever and I also wanted children to become a stay at home mom to them.
SHOULD I DIVORCE OR NOT???
Please be serious...I am torn.
 
So what do you actually do? It sounds like he is working and going to school so you can sit around and be a stay at home mom? You got married for all the wrong reason, and you need to go to see a therapist before you do anything and figure out what you want and what is actaully possible.
 
You dont actually have one nice thing too say about the guy apart from hes a great dad, think he should get rid of you!!!
 
give it a test honey...move out and pay your own way and see if that brings happiness.

My guess is you'll be miserable and looking for welfare
 
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