Darkly Dreaming Dexter
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He tries to dominate every last conversation we have. If I bring up a topic he doesn't want to talk about, he'll tell me to "shut up" or "stop." If I try to keep talking about it he'll scream at me and tell me I'm being annoying and he doesn't want to hear it.
It happened this morning. I woke up at 9:30 and he was still asleep. Of course he hadn't rolled into bed until 2 last night anyway because he was playing video games all night. I asked him if he was going to get up anytime soon and he told me "10-ish" and rolled over. I asked him to be more specific so I could plan what I was doing this morning (going to the store, fixing lunch, etc.) and he got hateful and told me to "shut up" and he was going back to bad. He'd be up whenever he wanted and I needed to stop because I was annoying.
What do you think ? Do we have unhealthy communication? I know I probably shouldn't have waked him but it's almost 10am and he's still sound asleep in bed. He has to leave for work by 12pm which means we won't be able to get lunch together, go to the store, etc. because he wants to sleep all morning.
I might add that this doesn't just happen in the morning. It happens all times of the day, even when we're out in public or visiting friends and family.
And I wouldn't normally wake him up but it's almost 10 and he's yet to get dressed or even attempt to get ready for work. I hate it when he tells me the day before that we'll have lunch before he leaves and yet it's 10am and he hasn't moved an inch.
He wouldn't be like this if he didn't stay up until 2am+ playing video games on a regular basis, but that's a whole other story...
It happened this morning. I woke up at 9:30 and he was still asleep. Of course he hadn't rolled into bed until 2 last night anyway because he was playing video games all night. I asked him if he was going to get up anytime soon and he told me "10-ish" and rolled over. I asked him to be more specific so I could plan what I was doing this morning (going to the store, fixing lunch, etc.) and he got hateful and told me to "shut up" and he was going back to bad. He'd be up whenever he wanted and I needed to stop because I was annoying.
What do you think ? Do we have unhealthy communication? I know I probably shouldn't have waked him but it's almost 10am and he's still sound asleep in bed. He has to leave for work by 12pm which means we won't be able to get lunch together, go to the store, etc. because he wants to sleep all morning.
I might add that this doesn't just happen in the morning. It happens all times of the day, even when we're out in public or visiting friends and family.
And I wouldn't normally wake him up but it's almost 10 and he's yet to get dressed or even attempt to get ready for work. I hate it when he tells me the day before that we'll have lunch before he leaves and yet it's 10am and he hasn't moved an inch.
He wouldn't be like this if he didn't stay up until 2am+ playing video games on a regular basis, but that's a whole other story...