When i first met him he was extra nice to me, and always trying to invite me out places, but i used to come up with silly excuses because i didn't really like him.. i like this other guy. At the time it was quite obvious he liked me, well unless he was messing around, but he was just a complete gentleman to me like always complementing me, following me, making sure i was "allrite", acting macho and being my "hero" etc.
My friend mentioned my crush saying " sophie likes...." and my guy friend goes "well i like sophie...." and his face was quite angry- i'd never seen him nasty until then. Then whenever i mentioned my crush ( i know i shouldn't really around him but he's a guy mate i need guy advice) he got really angry and went " is this guy god or something??" and " i don't like you talking about him, it's as though you're comparing me to him!" and he called him a d*** and he didn't like him even though he doesn't even know who he is. Then he added him on facebook and i had a go at him and told him to leave it and keep his nose out, and ever since he has been off with me sometimes- we don't get on as well as we used to and i don't want to lose a friend over his supposed " jealousy".
Last night we were at a party and we we're getting on like really good mates, just like we used to and there was no mention of my crush. He was being really over protective of me e.g. helping me, telling me to calm down ( when nothing was even getting stressful :S) and he kept touching my hands and arms and telling me to pretend to fight him lol! also, saying why would you want to straighten your gorgeous curly hair- when he knows im always complaining about it- so causing my to argue with him, even though he was complementing me at the same time!
Then later on, we were all settling down and i was just coming back over to sit with my friend and him and he started talking about this girl - ( and he was doing it really loud so i could hear too) and stupidly i went over and listened to what he was saying. The wholee the time he was looking at me and my face and when he described her he described someone exactly like me looks wise and personality wise- he said " yeah we get on really well, but when it comes to me and her alone she doesn't want to know and backs off" which is exactly what i did
so i don't know whether he was actually describing me but he was doing it for affect because he couldn't take his eyes off me. And inside i felt really bad. I'm not sure if i'm falling for him now because if he were just to admit he likes me to my face, not mid-convo, with a group of my close friends, i do think he would knock me off my feet but i don't know what to do because i may have just blown it. I did feel jealousy when he was talking about another girl, which must be his pay-back for my antics with my crush. But i don't know if he's just playing a game or what and trying to get me to like him, even if he doesnt...
My friend mentioned my crush saying " sophie likes...." and my guy friend goes "well i like sophie...." and his face was quite angry- i'd never seen him nasty until then. Then whenever i mentioned my crush ( i know i shouldn't really around him but he's a guy mate i need guy advice) he got really angry and went " is this guy god or something??" and " i don't like you talking about him, it's as though you're comparing me to him!" and he called him a d*** and he didn't like him even though he doesn't even know who he is. Then he added him on facebook and i had a go at him and told him to leave it and keep his nose out, and ever since he has been off with me sometimes- we don't get on as well as we used to and i don't want to lose a friend over his supposed " jealousy".
Last night we were at a party and we we're getting on like really good mates, just like we used to and there was no mention of my crush. He was being really over protective of me e.g. helping me, telling me to calm down ( when nothing was even getting stressful :S) and he kept touching my hands and arms and telling me to pretend to fight him lol! also, saying why would you want to straighten your gorgeous curly hair- when he knows im always complaining about it- so causing my to argue with him, even though he was complementing me at the same time!
Then later on, we were all settling down and i was just coming back over to sit with my friend and him and he started talking about this girl - ( and he was doing it really loud so i could hear too) and stupidly i went over and listened to what he was saying. The wholee the time he was looking at me and my face and when he described her he described someone exactly like me looks wise and personality wise- he said " yeah we get on really well, but when it comes to me and her alone she doesn't want to know and backs off" which is exactly what i did
so i don't know whether he was actually describing me but he was doing it for affect because he couldn't take his eyes off me. And inside i felt really bad. I'm not sure if i'm falling for him now because if he were just to admit he likes me to my face, not mid-convo, with a group of my close friends, i do think he would knock me off my feet but i don't know what to do because i may have just blown it. I did feel jealousy when he was talking about another girl, which must be his pay-back for my antics with my crush. But i don't know if he's just playing a game or what and trying to get me to like him, even if he doesnt...