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polite ? Plz tell me !? There is a Japanese girl doing research with me. I am a brown asian. She seems polite generally and behaves nice to everyone. I have noticed certain things that 'might mean' that she has a strong crush on me.
One thing I am sure about is that she respects me (That maybe her trait). She is also 'Kawaii'. (Trying to behaving as cute as a child although she is 25.)
She asks me a lot of questions (Her topic of research is close to mine one) OK, OK, lets take that as obvious. One day when we 4-5 people talking about different languages and scripts (We have a multicultural research group) and telling one another how a few common words are spoken in different languages she asked me in front of other people how to say 'I like you' in MY language. I took control of myself, and answered it normally as any other question, anyway.
The next day I was with her and one of our common friend and she asked me if I drink alcohol and smoke or not. I smiled and said no. Then my other friend asked her if she drinks and smokes. She said yes but I could notice a degree of reluctance/hesitation in her voice(Maybe inferiority complex ?). She was surprised to know I am a vegetarian.
She often compliments me for something I told her regarding our research, but mostly immediately after somebody leaves the room we are in. She waits to be alone before complimenting me.
She asked me my phone number and gave her without me asking, and even though she has disabled "Add as Friend" option in her facebook profile, she sent me an invite to be her friend. However, she never calls or email me except study matters, although she looks for chances to speak to me while in the college. She wouldn't call, text or email when she will be at her student accommodation.
Latest Information : I have firm evidences that she has a different personality at her student residence. She has excessive sexual relations with one boy and she is very happy with that. Is this called dual personality ?
Looking at her relatively poor command on English you cannot say that she has studied in an English speaking country for 3-4 years. She still signs her name in Japanese.
Is she just playing with me or she is just so polite or she has a real crush ?
One thing I am sure about is that she respects me (That maybe her trait). She is also 'Kawaii'. (Trying to behaving as cute as a child although she is 25.)
She asks me a lot of questions (Her topic of research is close to mine one) OK, OK, lets take that as obvious. One day when we 4-5 people talking about different languages and scripts (We have a multicultural research group) and telling one another how a few common words are spoken in different languages she asked me in front of other people how to say 'I like you' in MY language. I took control of myself, and answered it normally as any other question, anyway.
The next day I was with her and one of our common friend and she asked me if I drink alcohol and smoke or not. I smiled and said no. Then my other friend asked her if she drinks and smokes. She said yes but I could notice a degree of reluctance/hesitation in her voice(Maybe inferiority complex ?). She was surprised to know I am a vegetarian.
She often compliments me for something I told her regarding our research, but mostly immediately after somebody leaves the room we are in. She waits to be alone before complimenting me.
She asked me my phone number and gave her without me asking, and even though she has disabled "Add as Friend" option in her facebook profile, she sent me an invite to be her friend. However, she never calls or email me except study matters, although she looks for chances to speak to me while in the college. She wouldn't call, text or email when she will be at her student accommodation.
Latest Information : I have firm evidences that she has a different personality at her student residence. She has excessive sexual relations with one boy and she is very happy with that. Is this called dual personality ?
Looking at her relatively poor command on English you cannot say that she has studied in an English speaking country for 3-4 years. She still signs her name in Japanese.
Is she just playing with me or she is just so polite or she has a real crush ?
