does sex ruin things?

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i wanna have sex with my bf of 8 months. im 20 and a virgin..hes 19... is it too soon.....will it ruin things...ps i am not waiting til marriage nothing personal
 
sometimes. it can go one of two ways
1) you will feel more comfortable around him afterwards and become closer

2) you guys will act weird around each other and become more distant
 
He waited 8 months so he proved that he is not just after sex.
If you wait longer, THAT will ruin things.
 
Well...sex can affect a person emotionally. I've been dating my boyfriend for 3 years and we don't really do much intimate things...and we're really happy together. However, it is your choice.
 
it doesnt ruin anything.

but if you ever break up, you will be more sad because you will get attached after you have sex
 
Well, I had sex with my BF 2 months into the relationship.
We were both virgins too.....

I completely ruined our relationship, we broke up. I now know that sex can ruin relationships.

So, I suggest you wait, if u like him that is.
 
If one person realizes that the other person is terrible in bed and believe that it could never get better, then yes that could ruin things. However, it can also be the to deepen your heart connection with each other.
 
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