Does sex hurt for first-timers?

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As most virgins I am quite scared of losing my virginity. I'm just scared because of all the rumors that going around saying it hurts. If it does what can be done to reduce the pain. :)
 
It does hurt. Make sure its special. make sure you are old enough. With the rite person. Plenty of arousal, Plenty of lubrication.
 
Hell yeah it hurts. take it like a bitch man. You can't ease your way out of this one, cause you're strechin skin. You just got to stick it in and take it.
 
Losing your virginity does not hurt as long as you know what you're doing, which is why there are so many girls getting hurt! There could be a slight discomfort at first when the penis first enters. In order to prevent this you could provide extra lubrication for your first time or different relaxation methods.
Before losing your virginity you should experiment with yourself so you know what you are doing. I suggest for all young girls to look at their lady parts in a mirror and examine what is what on themselves. If you know your own body, it's easier to teach others about it.
I'd also suggest inserting things into your vagina. Nothing strange, just fingers or things penis shaped so you can get an idea of the way that things will feel. It isn't strange to experiment! And if it is strange, it's stranger to not know what's going on!
 
If the people care about eachother and are sexually arroused it doesn't hurt as much for the girl. If the girl is not completely excited there may not be enough lubrication. Also if a tampon is uncomfortable, then a penis that's a bit bigger might also be uncomfortable until you get used to it.

It really shouldn't hurt the boy, but I have heard that a guys first time is just as bad as a girl's. It's all new and akward.

My advice is stay safe and try other things. Get good at giving and receiving hand jobs and oral. When you are ready for intercourse it will be better.
 
it hurts really bad because there is a piece of skin called a hymen that gets ripped, if your hymen is broken before having sex for the first time it will reduce the pain
 
Yes it defenetly hurts, but it all depends on the sizes of the penis and how gentle they are. what you need to do is relax and enjoy the moment for the most part. Also what u need to do is be confortable with your partner and tell him how you feel.!!
Good luck!!!
 
for some girls it hurts for some it doesnt. alot of girls hymens are already torn before they have sex. mine was. if you do alot of sports or horseback riding or already use tampons your hymen may already be torn and it wont hurt as bad.
 
Nothing. Don't expect that it'll feel good the first few times either. Remember as well that there is no hurry to go ahead and have sex. Wait alittle bit longer if you're scared. Just cause he wants it doesn't mean he should get it.

If you're afraid he'll leave if you don't have sex with him then he's not the kind of guy you want to be having sex with.
 
Nothing & don't do it until you are really ready. Who cares what everyone else says they are doing. And yes it hurts
 
well theres nothing to reduce it but dont worry. its hard to explain because it does hurt but its like the good part takes over haha. im not saying that it keeps your mind off the pain.. idk... you wont really understand until youve had sex haha but all i can say is to not worry =) your first time is amazingg
 
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