Does sex feel the same as masturbation?

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It'll be a long time until I lose my virginity but... my guilty pleasure is masturbation. I've become addicted and I'm just wondering if after a while, does masturbation get less effective? I've been doing it for years and it's not so great anymore. I tried fingering myself (inside) but i didn't feel much. If I started having sex and after all the pain and nervousness, would it feel just like masturbation or is it way better? Do you get orgasms only during sex? Did I damage everything over the years and now I will never have great sex?!
 
sounds like ur bored. no it doesnt-sometimes great sometimes not-the dick has to fit you personaly-show him how u like to be touched -dont fake it if he sucks-he'll do it again. the heat from bodys-the ''full'' feeling in-the licking all is a diff feeling if u care for each other. ur fine tho-get some new toys-the rabbit-bullet etc

good luck
 
Masturbation does get less effective once you do it the same way over and over and over again. The reason you probably didn't feel much when you fingered yourself, was because your walls have stretched. I've been masturbating for ever, and the only way it seems to make it better is to use different techniques. Vibrators are really a godsend. And I would totally suggest to get one if your not ready for sex and want to spice up your masturbation. But masturbation and sex are completely different. Having someone do the things you do to yourself turns everything around. It's so much more exciting especially when it's someone you care about greatly. You don't only get orgasms during sex. A lot of women have trouble achieving orgasms through masturbation. Try different things to make yourself feel more excited. Don't worry, you'll eventually have sex and realize how much more amazing it is than masturbating. You didn't damage anything lol.
 
relax, i'm sure you didn't damage anything it all depends, sex can be great if you love the person, if you really love the person i would say its 1000 times better than masturbation could ever be. Sex isn't meant to just be physical
 
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