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tennesseegirl1993
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i am 16. i do not plan on having sex anytime soon. i want to wait until im married. (one of the last few my age who want to wait.) i just want to know if.. when im older.. if it will hurt. ive heard horror stories about some. saying it hurt soooo bad and they cried and bled all over the bed. and others said nothing happened. ive done research and i know about the hymen and stuff.. some girls say they had hymenectomys so it didn't hurt. others said theirs was already broken by horseback riding and stuff. im just worried about my first time and i really don't want it to hurt. i mean, my boyfriend has fingered me but i stopped it there. he didn't go very far because it hurt when he tried, and i screamed. does this mean it will hurt worse for sex? again. im not going to do it til im married. im just curious.