don't judge!!!
sorry its long..
he is my fwb.. i know its wrong.. but hey..
i've known him for 2 1/2yrs just as long as he's been with his gf..
so, a few months ago at a party that we all were at.. (him and i work together so we know the same people)
we were having a good time him, her, and myself just laughing, talking, and drinking..
i get ready and to go home, i go tell them that im taking off and he looks at me and tells me to make sure i call him once i get home to let him know i've made it safely.. she is right next to him and says yeah, call my phone.. okay i dont like her i wouldnt call her EVER..
but anyways later that night, they had a fight.. he called me to come get him because the cops were called.. so i go to his house they tell her to leave.. so its me and him.. we get to talking and he is still drunk, and says to me " you know one day you and i will have our own place" i have no idea what he meant.. but later i drop him off to her and i go home..
well.. it seems as though he got her pregnant that night.. which is a bad situation..
but he still talks to me all the time, and he brings up things about him and i in the future..
and that he is so comfortable around me and he says this a lot.. " you mean a lot to me, i dont want to ruin our friendship, and i dont want to lose you"
does he some what regret the things that he has done?!?!
i just get confused with him talking about him and i in the future.. when obviously he is starting a future with her.. any advice?? sorry that its long!!
sorry its long..
he is my fwb.. i know its wrong.. but hey..
i've known him for 2 1/2yrs just as long as he's been with his gf..
so, a few months ago at a party that we all were at.. (him and i work together so we know the same people)
we were having a good time him, her, and myself just laughing, talking, and drinking..
i get ready and to go home, i go tell them that im taking off and he looks at me and tells me to make sure i call him once i get home to let him know i've made it safely.. she is right next to him and says yeah, call my phone.. okay i dont like her i wouldnt call her EVER..
but anyways later that night, they had a fight.. he called me to come get him because the cops were called.. so i go to his house they tell her to leave.. so its me and him.. we get to talking and he is still drunk, and says to me " you know one day you and i will have our own place" i have no idea what he meant.. but later i drop him off to her and i go home..
well.. it seems as though he got her pregnant that night.. which is a bad situation..
but he still talks to me all the time, and he brings up things about him and i in the future..
and that he is so comfortable around me and he says this a lot.. " you mean a lot to me, i dont want to ruin our friendship, and i dont want to lose you"
does he some what regret the things that he has done?!?!
i just get confused with him talking about him and i in the future.. when obviously he is starting a future with her.. any advice?? sorry that its long!!