Does having sex with men make you gay? Same question for girls.?

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Allen

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Just a question I never knew the answer to. If some guy has sex with another guy or mutually masturbates with him, does that make him gay ? (assuming it's just sex and not a relationship)

And also if a girl has sex with another girl, does that make her a lesbian even though there is no connection between them, just for an orgasm.


oh and this is all assuming their are not bisexual.
 
You can still be a straight man/girl and have sex with same sex partners. Doesn't make you gay/bisexual/lesbian.Your actions don't determine who/what you are.
 
Well if a guy has sex with another guy, or a girl has sex with another girl, and they enjoy it, they are at least bisexual, if not bisexual. You can't enjoy having sex with the same sex and be straight!
 
Me standing in my garage and making "vroom-vroom" sounds doesn't make me a Toyota. Now if I go in for mandatory oil changes, that's another matter.

Behavior does not determine sexuality. But even if you're NOT in a relationship with a guy and there's a tendency to engage in mutual masturbation, there's the possibility that some latent bisexuality exists and that's OK. Human sexuality isn't a 3-way option; there are many shades of grey between the two exclusive extremes.
 
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