Does anyone elses mind "drift" during sex?

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I must admit, i havn't really had the best sex out, but i find during the beggining and middle of sex, my mind just drifts. I start thinking about "how did i get to this point of the relationship" or " is this right?". My thoughts arn't negatively based either, they are just like any other thought.
Because of this, i often end up out of the mood.

I also love the guy that i have sex with, and im sure the sex isnt "boring" either.
Theres just something missing.

Can anyone kind of relate?
I feel as if there is something wrong with me, not the guy....
 
no it does not go away when you are married, and are you on any meds? Some meds make this happen.
 
Yes, I sometimes find my mind turning to sport or food while I'm at it. My current partner isn't the greatest in bed (speaking from experience), but she makes up for it in many other ways. I don't find myself thinking about our relationship...passed that point years ago.
 
YA, totally relateable! A lot of girls do that.... especially if you aren't married... when u get married all those will go away

hope this helps :)

*can u help me?
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There's definitely something missing if you aren't there "in the moment".

It's happened to me before but not in a long time and never with my current lover.

You say the sex isn't boring, but it's apparently not toe-curling either or you wouldn't be able to focus on anything other than what you're experiencing or what you are doing. Try to stay more in the moment or figure out what is missing that is needed to keep you there... ☺
 
This isn't fair on the guy you are with. He is gunna think its something to do with him. Just try for his sake atleast. Maybe you need to do something new and more exciting?
 
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