Chibi Oka-san
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I'm asking because it's more of a trying to make me feel better or at least told the truth so I can fix this.
I went on facebook and said, "I wish my husband would teach me how to drive so I don't have to beg barrow and plan every appointment and grocery shopping trip."
Immidiatly I was bashed saying what a horrible mom I was for complaining about this and that it was my fault this happened (everyone thinks I made my husband quit his job when he was laid off due to too many points. He found a new job but works him 12 hours a day from 6am - 9pm)
Now I don't care that he's working overtime tha means we get to catch up on bills, what I care is that I wished he would teach me so I could get my son to his doctors appointments and get stuff at the store without having to take him out in the cold or plan weeks in advance.
All I wanted was advice and instead I got bashed for, "Talking bad about my husband." and "complaining when others have it worse." and that, "I should just deal with it." they even added an insult saying that it's my fault for not putting my son in a jumper so he can build leg strength and walk by now! (he just turned 1 a week ago)
I don't know whether it's true that I'm horrible for putting that simple remark up there (which later after I was bashed I started crying over what was said and explained the issue)
So does a mother have a right to vent every so often, or should I just shut up and deal with it?
BQ: Am I a bad mom for not putting my son in a jumper?
I went on facebook and said, "I wish my husband would teach me how to drive so I don't have to beg barrow and plan every appointment and grocery shopping trip."
Immidiatly I was bashed saying what a horrible mom I was for complaining about this and that it was my fault this happened (everyone thinks I made my husband quit his job when he was laid off due to too many points. He found a new job but works him 12 hours a day from 6am - 9pm)
Now I don't care that he's working overtime tha means we get to catch up on bills, what I care is that I wished he would teach me so I could get my son to his doctors appointments and get stuff at the store without having to take him out in the cold or plan weeks in advance.
All I wanted was advice and instead I got bashed for, "Talking bad about my husband." and "complaining when others have it worse." and that, "I should just deal with it." they even added an insult saying that it's my fault for not putting my son in a jumper so he can build leg strength and walk by now! (he just turned 1 a week ago)
I don't know whether it's true that I'm horrible for putting that simple remark up there (which later after I was bashed I started crying over what was said and explained the issue)
So does a mother have a right to vent every so often, or should I just shut up and deal with it?
BQ: Am I a bad mom for not putting my son in a jumper?