Dodged a guy but he keeps pursuing me. does this man really like me? has

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awaken one

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anyone experienced this before? I met this guy who is contracted to do the lawn at my company. we exchanged numbers and started talking but because of past relationships going sour I kept unknowingly looking for reasons not to talk to him. When I would blow him off I would find out that he was coming up to my job and asking if I still worked there. I found it odd because i have never had a man to continue to pursue me before when I have been dodging him. No matter how many times I have tried to run from him he seems to keep trying to pursue me. I told him I came from a abused background and he told me that he didn't want me to run from him and that he was going to make sure my needs came first. He has also offered to take me home to visit my family in texas. I am nervous because I am not use to someone caring about me and would like feed back as well as insight from others on this matter. I am aware that some men will lie but I am a little taken back by this one.if someone has experienced this please let me know. I ask that you please be repectful in your responses because this is very sensitive for me. Thank you for your time.
 
i suggest that you talk to him as a friend and get to know him and well be honest with him..if he's looking for a relationship or something tell him that, thats not what your looking for and well get to know him and maybe with time your feelings can change and ya can grow to be more or ya can be great friends..but main key get to know him..because it never hurts to have another friend =)
 
Okay get to know him. If you truly like him but don't want to be anything more than acquaintances then so be it. It's your decision not his.
 
Continue to dodge him until he loses interest. He sounds like someone who has an addictive personality and a stalker mentality. This is the type of person who'll never be satisfied; if you give him an inch, he'll want a mile; if you allow him into your life, he'll want to be the center of your life. Don't get involved, he'll give you nothing but grief.
 
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