Do you think you can really accept your sexuality if your not out the closet?

crusader

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I don't feel ashamed of it. I told the people who I wanted to know. Now I am more free with who I tell and a lot more people know. Since I attend a small catholic high school, I have to be careful for my own safety too. I am pretty open with people who ask, but I'm not going to go around an announce it to everyone. But also, I am no longer afraid to tell people. So I guess I am halfway out.
 
This is for people in and out the closet.


For those in the closet:

I feel like your still ashamed of who you are if your hiding it. If someone started talking badly about African Americans or the Irish, I would say "hey i'm yada yada yada, etc". As for someone in the closet they would not. If I would just sit their and be quiet, obviously I was ashamed and not really be accepting of my heritage. I myself would have to feel for some reason there was something wrong with it and therefore be ashamed. I just can't see how you can know your gay, claim you accept it, yet lie about it. You yourself must feel there something wrong wit it, if not why wouldn't you be out about it. Just because it's not socially accepted. Would you hide your race because it wasn't accepted? Would you hide one of your dearest friend because they weren't socially accepted? If you answered yes to any of the above you are a conformist coward and this question is not for you. If you wouldn't, why is your sexual orientation any different?

If you are out of the closet:

Do you agree or disagree, why or why not?

Do you feel like you could every hide your sexuality for anything?
 
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