I am saved throught the blood of Jesus Christ. He is my advocate before the father. Besides, you're giving human attributes to God. God is all knowing. He knows everything we've done, everything we've said, every hair on our head. Yet, if we believe that his son died for our sins & repent of our sins, then he is just to forgive us without any strings attached. I don't expect God to answer all of my prayers because a No (or unanswered prayer) is still an answer. It's not about what WE want, it is about the big picture. God doesn't kill people. Death, pain & suffering are allowed, but not done by the works of God. Death, pain & suffering are the price humanity pays for sin. I don't even pretent to know what the big picture is when it comes to God. I pray. If it's something that God sees fit to grant me, fine. If not, fine. I don't whine. I don't use prayer as a personal "want" thing. I don't pray selfishly as if I were asking a genie for 3 wishes. And, I know that if I'm not living a Godly life, that God is less likely to answer what I'm asking. People often think God is there ONLY when they need them & don't live for HIM on a daily basis.
Romans 8:28
"And we know that all things work together for good to those who love God"