do you think this will work due to past history?

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Just wondering am i the only one who thinks my friend is being silly! Hes 24 and has been engaged twice. He met this girl in November and dumped his fiancé of 4 yrs for her a week later. In February he proposed to her and has already booked the wedding for july. It wouldn’t look so bad if it wasn’t for his history.... Hes booked a few holidays and said he wants to marry this woman yet he thought the last one was the one! Thing is he was also chasing me for a while during his engagement - don’t worry nothing happened as ive got morals hence him going off with this other girl.
 
It seems like this guy is in a rush to settle down and "conform" with the idea of being in a steady relationship but at the same time is very immature and constantly getting himself into the "grass is greener" scenario.
I'd sit your friend down and be kind but firm, tell him you think because of his past history you think he might be rushing things and don't want him to realise he's made a huge mistake after the wedding. He's only young and obviously falls in love easily - how does he know that he won't find another "one" later down the line?
There's nothing wrong with being engaged but why not enjoy each other for a bit before rushing down the alter?
 
Doubt they will make it down the isle. Not because of his age as I am younger and have been married for three years but because of his past history. I doubt he will ever be faithfull even if he does get married. Don't know what the rush is.
 
too young for marriage sounds like he isnt mature enough to settle down or know what he wants.. which is ok for a 24 yr old.. normal
 
The main cause of divorce is that the wrong people marry each other.

This guy is so immature that he should not consider marriage. He will not listen to you, he thinks with his gonads.

Stand back and wait for the crash. Do not get involved in this mess, you will lose any friendship you have with him, unless that is not important to you.
 
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