Do you think think there is something wrong with my mother-in-law?

[Joe]

I have never disliked someone as much as I dislike my ML. First thing that put me over the edge about my ML. My ML serves my husband his plate and drink. While she is eating if she sees my husband’s glass about to be empty she gets up and refills my husband glass and she also does that if he wants second on food. I try to make sure his plate or drink is made before she does it. I have talked to my husband about making his own plate, but that never happens. I have talked to her about kissing my husband on the mouth and slapping him on the butt. I told her that makes me feel very uncomfortable. If she sees my husband being lovely dove towards me, she will try to grab him from behind and hang on him. That is disgusting by far. My husband is not her husband. She calls my husband only when he is at work and she calls him about two times a week. She never calls him when I am around. When she knows he will be alone. First of all why does she call him two times a week and hear again her son is not her husband. She wants to see her son every weekend. She has him mow her yard every Friday and she pays him for it. We don’t need the money, we are well off. The dad can’t mow because he has a certain disease that disables him to function right. She does not clean the house at all and she does nothing on the weekend. All she does is cook and watch TV on the weekend. She can go out and the mow the yard herself, but all she wants to see my husband every weekend. My husband sees it has helping his mom out on the yard. I look as the only way he is helper is getting fatter and she wants him to herself every weekend. It drives me crazy, that she has to see my husband every weekend. If the grass doesn’t need it, she wants him to go out to lunch with her that Friday. Do you think that there is something wrong with her?