...their baby? If someone had just miscarried and you knew about it, do you think it's wrong to tell them you're pregnant, especially announcing it when they're around where they can hear it?
I personally think it is because they had just lost their child and are grieving over it and I think it be cold hearted to announce your pregnancy to them and they feel even worse, especially if you decided to announce it around them. Let them find out on their own.
Sure if you're showing, there is really nothing you can do about it unless you avoid being around them so they can't see you. But you shouldn't have to stay in your home and not ever leave just because you might run into that person or might run into someone else who lost their baby and they are upset all over again after seeing your pregnancy.
I had a miscarriage last summer and it was hard seeing pregnant women and babies but I knew there was nothing they can do about it. They have every right to be in public. But I wouldn't want to hear someone announcing their pregnancy or even tell me. If they didn't know I was pregnant and lost the baby, that be another story because how were they supposed to know? But if they knew I lost the baby and decided to tell me it anyway, I would wonder why did they have to tell me? Was it to torture me and make me feel bad all over again? Oh well, I guess that's me. It just seems cold to me to shove it in someone's face when you full well know they lost it unless they said they wouldn't care if someone announced it to them after knowing they lost their child.
I personally think it is because they had just lost their child and are grieving over it and I think it be cold hearted to announce your pregnancy to them and they feel even worse, especially if you decided to announce it around them. Let them find out on their own.
Sure if you're showing, there is really nothing you can do about it unless you avoid being around them so they can't see you. But you shouldn't have to stay in your home and not ever leave just because you might run into that person or might run into someone else who lost their baby and they are upset all over again after seeing your pregnancy.
I had a miscarriage last summer and it was hard seeing pregnant women and babies but I knew there was nothing they can do about it. They have every right to be in public. But I wouldn't want to hear someone announcing their pregnancy or even tell me. If they didn't know I was pregnant and lost the baby, that be another story because how were they supposed to know? But if they knew I lost the baby and decided to tell me it anyway, I would wonder why did they have to tell me? Was it to torture me and make me feel bad all over again? Oh well, I guess that's me. It just seems cold to me to shove it in someone's face when you full well know they lost it unless they said they wouldn't care if someone announced it to them after knowing they lost their child.