husband? Ok...let my explain myself before you all start calling me a terrible person....
My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years (I'm 22 and he's 25) and I love him with everything I have. We have a 10 month old daughter together, he's in the military and we live overseas, everything about our marriage is amazing...except the sex. When it comes to sex, I'm a bit more adventurous than he is. I like to try new things and get a little crazy sometimes, but he's very reserved and he always has been. But I don't care so much about sex that I wouldn't marry him because of it. As far as he's concerned, our sex life is amazing. But it's really boring for me. Missionary style with no amount of four-play gets very old...
So lately I've found that fantasizing about my celebrity crushes helps me a little. Any hot celebrity I can think of at the time. Never my ex-boyfriends or his friends or anything like that. I've read in several magazines that it's totally normal and a lot of women (and men) do it, but I can't help feeling bad about it and I don't know how to talk to him about it without hurting his ego.
What do you think I should do?
My bad...I actually meant to post this in the marriage section. Oh well...maybe I can get some good answers here too
My husband and I have been married for almost 4 years (I'm 22 and he's 25) and I love him with everything I have. We have a 10 month old daughter together, he's in the military and we live overseas, everything about our marriage is amazing...except the sex. When it comes to sex, I'm a bit more adventurous than he is. I like to try new things and get a little crazy sometimes, but he's very reserved and he always has been. But I don't care so much about sex that I wouldn't marry him because of it. As far as he's concerned, our sex life is amazing. But it's really boring for me. Missionary style with no amount of four-play gets very old...
So lately I've found that fantasizing about my celebrity crushes helps me a little. Any hot celebrity I can think of at the time. Never my ex-boyfriends or his friends or anything like that. I've read in several magazines that it's totally normal and a lot of women (and men) do it, but I can't help feeling bad about it and I don't know how to talk to him about it without hurting his ego.
What do you think I should do?
My bad...I actually meant to post this in the marriage section. Oh well...maybe I can get some good answers here too
give him a bj, put h is hands on your breasts, tell him you want him to lick your vag, then when you've had enough of that, stand up, push him onto the table, and ride on top. dont be afraid to make him do what you want.