Trevor Martin
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It all started when I first met him and he seemed super into me, but was really touchy and I was with someone, so I turned him down... He kept at it and I kept turning him down, maybe wanting a friendship and not much more ( he seemed like a player)...anyways, I reached a low point and this one night while under the influence I hit him up after having a falling out with this guy I had began seeing after him...and things sort of happened, wheras we hooked up ( not full- on but partially).
I only expected it to be one night, I never expected a follow-up. But for some reason, he contacted me a few days after, and I felt bad that I just used him, so i said once more to even things out. Well that once more turned into 2 more times until this one time I turned him down...then he stopped contacting me a bit and so I seeked him out, as a friend. And we started kind of contacting each other as 'friends' no hook-ups... and then again, i cut my losses and flat out said i was done.
Until i kept running into him and he kept contacting me.
Thing is, now he contacts me and intiates something and then turns me down. So, i hate the whole yes let's do this and then 'nevermind'. And the last few times, we've gone out he' s been less attentive to me and more attentive to other girls and so forth, which is cool, i am too.
My question is: will he get the hint i'm done if I just stop responding or contacting him? Is it messed up to not answer him if he calls/texts/messages me?
and anyone have experience with a guy's behavior as this? Does it seem like he liked me and got upset? Or was just never really into it?
I only expected it to be one night, I never expected a follow-up. But for some reason, he contacted me a few days after, and I felt bad that I just used him, so i said once more to even things out. Well that once more turned into 2 more times until this one time I turned him down...then he stopped contacting me a bit and so I seeked him out, as a friend. And we started kind of contacting each other as 'friends' no hook-ups... and then again, i cut my losses and flat out said i was done.
Until i kept running into him and he kept contacting me.
Thing is, now he contacts me and intiates something and then turns me down. So, i hate the whole yes let's do this and then 'nevermind'. And the last few times, we've gone out he' s been less attentive to me and more attentive to other girls and so forth, which is cool, i am too.
My question is: will he get the hint i'm done if I just stop responding or contacting him? Is it messed up to not answer him if he calls/texts/messages me?
and anyone have experience with a guy's behavior as this? Does it seem like he liked me and got upset? Or was just never really into it?