Do you or your spouse REFUSE to discuss one topic?

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Does anyone else have a spouse who refuses to discuss 1 certain issue? And it drives you nuts? No matter how many times you bring it up to discuss they simply cannot discuss it? I know that in my home we cannot discuss bank accounts. He absolutely hates it, and I find that it's neccessary to discuss finances and where the bills go, and he can't handle the idea of just switching account to ONE account with both of our names on it, and we've been married for 3 years...

Is there anything that you or your spouse just cannot handle discussing?
We split bills in half and we each pay our share. LOL :)
We both have good jobs, we just don't discuss bank accounts. LOL
 
Nope...I know of no topic that's off limits...even the occasional curious question about his ex....or mine.
 
She would refuse to discuss our intimacy or trust issues. Like ignoring our problems was a way to resolve them.

Which was why our marriage collapsed.
 
yea, his inability to maintain an erection, his low drive and his premature edjaculation are the things that lead to nowhere in our house when discussed. he lives in denial.
 
so for the last 3 years how have the bills been paid? Since your hubby won't have a combined account with you (no offense but that's a BIG RED FLAG in my book)...is he paying all the bills out of his account? Do you have to give him any money to help with your "share" of the bills...or are you a stay-at-home wife? I'm being to guess you are and it seems he is trapping you...I hope I am way off since you didn't give any information...can I atleast assume you don't have kids?

Please give more info...

glad to know you are a professional and have a good job...I know you are asking about other people and topics their spouse don't discuss but the fact that he is giving you such a hard time is making me wonder if he is hiding anything you from? Do you ever get that feeling? I guess as long as the bills are all getting paid that is the bottom line...who pays the bills, you or him? If it's him, does he let you know how much your share is? I'm sorry but this is how I live with my husband ONLY because we haven't divorced yet...we have verbally agreed to separate and live as ROOMMATES for the kids...we are living exactly how you are and I am wondering why since you are only married for three years?

I'm sorry I didn't mean to change the subject on you but you got me thinking...
 
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