deirdrefaith
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...common courtesy to reply? I don't write on there too much [way to busy] though if someone writes to me I personally always have a kind response. Sometimes I've experienced ppl w/out the common courtesy to even answer me, which is baffling since they 'brefriended' me on there. It's strange ..... well I'm referring to ppl I know, however overall folks have been nice. What about you?
Yes, I'll give you a FEW examples ... I've a cousin I wrote twice, however the 2nd time I wrote back they never even acknowleged my note, and I felt it was important. And an old friend I knew from a private school when we were kids, "befriended" me and she never even wrote at all! Another old friend I wrote, she responded telling me she'd been seriously sick, & I wrote back wishing her well, told her an illness I went thru and she never replied back a 2nd time. The good news is, I've another whom really felt like a brother to me growing up~~he's written me a LOT! So it greatly makes up for the selfish inconsiderate ones who basically use FB as an exposed diary, show off &/or just play stupid games [u know that cafe' game, etc.] I've dedided just to make up another profile, keep the friends list small and select and so it will be way more meaningful as it's really intended to be? and probably ignore the original profile or simply delete.
I personally do not feel facebook is a good place to be if others don't even have common courtesy~like the 1st poster said, 'your mind begins to wonder ....' [it was like what the h*ll did I do? Or didn't do?] Don't even let your mind go there, I realized it's THEM, NOT YOU. you have manners they don't-just as simple as that.
Just make another profile, keep the nice ones. Weird how some strangers on there, are way more nice than certain 'friends' or 'family'. I'd say overall they're normal and sweet, but have to say, some folks I don't really know, who've been REALLY great on FB. Honestly don't even go on there too much, just recently, and once this past summer and b4 that last february, lol xD work too much to have time to chat on there + work out some.
Yes, I'll give you a FEW examples ... I've a cousin I wrote twice, however the 2nd time I wrote back they never even acknowleged my note, and I felt it was important. And an old friend I knew from a private school when we were kids, "befriended" me and she never even wrote at all! Another old friend I wrote, she responded telling me she'd been seriously sick, & I wrote back wishing her well, told her an illness I went thru and she never replied back a 2nd time. The good news is, I've another whom really felt like a brother to me growing up~~he's written me a LOT! So it greatly makes up for the selfish inconsiderate ones who basically use FB as an exposed diary, show off &/or just play stupid games [u know that cafe' game, etc.] I've dedided just to make up another profile, keep the friends list small and select and so it will be way more meaningful as it's really intended to be? and probably ignore the original profile or simply delete.
I personally do not feel facebook is a good place to be if others don't even have common courtesy~like the 1st poster said, 'your mind begins to wonder ....' [it was like what the h*ll did I do? Or didn't do?] Don't even let your mind go there, I realized it's THEM, NOT YOU. you have manners they don't-just as simple as that.
Just make another profile, keep the nice ones. Weird how some strangers on there, are way more nice than certain 'friends' or 'family'. I'd say overall they're normal and sweet, but have to say, some folks I don't really know, who've been REALLY great on FB. Honestly don't even go on there too much, just recently, and once this past summer and b4 that last february, lol xD work too much to have time to chat on there + work out some.