Do you find asian women who marry white are bad person?

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I'm biracial asian-caucasian. and I feel so hurt, I love white guy because where I staying have no asian guy. I love boyfriend very much as same as he love me. but I decided to refuse to marry him just because I don't want to be the typical asian girl who marry white guy for money or white privilege and then destroy the white race with asian blood. I love europe, its much smaller than asia but non-white moving here everydays and take adventage from white people. do I have got a self-hate toward my half asian? I hate many of my asian female relatives that they are a poor women without education and passing a lot of illegel experiences. they marry white guy by the helping of the asian bar girl in europe. everytime when I see their face and they trying to group me into the same group as them as if I accepted to marry white guy.....please answer me? I don't mind if u would give me a racist answer but I wanted to know what do you think about asian women are eager to get white guy? should I tell my boyfriend that I wanted to marry him? or should I staying refusing him for the good of my own pride?Yes, I don't speak english as my first language. I speak dutch and thai and abit swedish.I prefer talking than typing..Jade say : this is a true story.Tellyoda : Nope I have never been with my boyfriend. I'm a good girl and wouldn't do such a thing before marry. but my boyfriend love me and wanted to marry me, I also wanted to marry him but my asian relatives creeped me off.MJ : bedankt voor je gemene antwoord en vindt jou ook niet leuk.
 
To your question in BOLD: Of course not !! But I know some Asian women are super duper proud and wear like skanks when they get a white guy.
 
It seems you are someone with correct grammatical English who is trying to speak as if they are someone who doesn`t know how to speak proper English.
 
why would you treat yo boyfriend like that?...don't deny him....he deserved the love from you.
 
You love your white boyfriend because there is no asian guy where you live? That's pretty bad. How about loving your boyfriend because of who he is, how you feel when you are with him and how he treats you? Everyone has their own life path. Investing energy in hating 1/2 yourself or your relatives is just draining your energy. I think you will be happiest if you focus on your own life, who you love and what makes you happy. It really doesn't matter what motivates your relatives or other asian people. Refusing to love yourself or your boyfriend for the sake of your pride will leave you with nothing but pride - and that can be a pretty lonely value.
 
I already knew this... what's sad is white brothers falling for you guys since you make them think you love them. Talk about your race being selfish.
 
many of your comments disturb me. you refer to asian women trying to get white guy and destroy white race with asian blood. whoa, girl. that's one of the most racist statements ive seen. you seem to hate asian women who take advantage of white men. by being with and loving your boyfriend, you are not taking advantage. real love and marriage don't have anything to do with race. you are ashamed of women of your race, the asian part, and disapprove of what they do. that has nothing to do with you as a person. you should not judge them either. some have selfish motives and some are good people who are looking for a chance in life. if you really love your boyfriend and want to be a good wife and soul mate to him, then go for it. be happy and forget pride. pride is not always a good thing. love yourself as a person and don't get involved with those other ideas.
 
I think it's pretty shallow of you to consider that as your reasoning. By all rights. Who cares what people think. If you love the man.You've proven it .. you don't by your question love him.. With true love.. nothing stands in your way.
 
You have to marry the man you love who is good to you and loves you! Every country and every race has women who so the same things that some poor asian women do. It isn't a matter of race or color it is the person you are and the man he is. I live in the US and there are women who are poor and will do anything to get away from their poverty, they use men for their money, they prostitute for money. This is all over the world. You should never be ashamed of who you are or what is your heritage your country or the orgin of your ancesters, your family. My son who is white met a woman from the Philippines and of course it is a poor country. He travelled to see her a number of times and webcamed with her for two years. She has just come here and they are going to be married. She is 36 years old and had many chances to marry other American men but she waited for love. My son loves her so very much and she loves him in return. She has now part of our family and I consider her my daughter. Love is where you find it and love is not easy to find in somebody who will love you in return. You cannot let this man go if he loves you.
 
I kind of understand what you mean. As Asian women it does get so embarrassing to have to keep living down the Asian women who make us look bad to the rest of the world. It sometimes makes me avoid dating white guys because I don't want to get looked at like another stereotypical Asian woman chasing after white men. It makes me angry when people assume we're all alike.However, you love this man and he loves you. You shouldn't throw that love away because you're afraid of what others will think. Instead, prove them wrong by marrying him and having a happy life together. You can be an example of Asian women who break the stereotype by marrying for love and for life. If you pass up this love because of other people's opinions you will probably regret it the rest of your life. Be happy. =)
 
Well since you speak dutch (and i do too) i'll type in dutch so its easier for you to understand =)Je hebt mij juist bewezen wat ik altijd wist over jullie mensen.Dat is waarom ik niet wil trouwen met jullie soort. Ik hou van latijnse vrouwen =)
 
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